Circle of Security

Circle of Security Parenting

Wondering what your child needs from you?

Unsure of how to handle your child's big feelings?

Struggling to stay calm when your child's behaviour feels overwhelming?

Wondering if you are doing enough to support your child's development?

At times all parents feel lost or unsure about what our child really needs from us. Circle of Security Parenting™ helps you make sense of your child’s behaviour, strengthen your relationship, and feel more confident in your parenting.

Who is it for?

Parents of children aged 0 - 6 years who would like to strengthen their relationship with their child and reflect on the ways in which they were parented.

What will we learn?

Throughout this transformative program, you will:

Understand your child’s emotional world by learning to read the emotional needs

Support your child’s ability to successfully manage emotions
Enhance the development of your child's self esteem
Honour your innate wisdom and desire for your child to be secure

We all carry our own stories - the way we were raised, the messages we absorbed, the patterns we promised ourselves we wouldn’t repeat (and the ones we desperately want to hold onto).

But good intentions don't always change what happens in the moment.

You might hear yourself saying something and suddenly realise it sounds exactly like something your own parent used to say. Or you might notice a strong reaction to your child’s behaviour that catches you off guard.

That's not failure: it's part of being human.

Parenting has a way of bringing all our old stuff bubbling to the surface — sometimes things we didn’t even know were inside us. But here’s the good news: that’s not the end of the story.

With the safety of this program, a supportive group, and space for reflection, you can:

Make sense of your triggers
Understand how your past is showing up in your parenting
Break old cycles and create new ones
Parent in alignment with your values, with more confidence and compassion

What we'll cover:

Circle of Security Parenting™ runs through 8 chapters of learning and reflection. In our group, we’ll explore all of these themes together:

The Circle of Security

So often we’re left wondering what our child actually needs in the moment. The Circle gives you a simple, visual roadmap to make sense of their attachment needs - when they’re reaching out for comfort, when they’re pulling away to explore, and how to be their safe base no matter what.

'Being With' Your Child

When kids have big feelings, it’s easy to slip into “fix-it” mode or feel frustrated when nothing seems to work. Here you’ll learn how to sit with your child’s emotions without needing to solve them - and why connection matters more than solutions.

Your Parenting Triggers

None of us come to parenting as a blank slate. The ways we were parented - the messages we absorbed and the wounds we carry - show up in how we respond to our kids. Sometimes their behaviour sparks a much bigger reaction in us than we expect. That’s “shark music.” Naming it is the first step to changing how we respond.

Bigger, Stronger, Wiser & Kind

Do you find yourself swinging between being too firm or too soft? Kids need us to be leaders they can trust — setting boundaries with confidence, while still showing warmth and compassion. This chapter helps you find that balance.

Rupture & Repair

Every parent has moments of disconnection - snapping, shutting down, or just missing the mark. What matters most isn’t avoiding rupture, but how we repair. This part shows you how to come back together after those inevitable moments, and why repair is where we need to focus!

The Good-Enough Parent

The pressure to be perfect is everywhere, but kids don’t need perfect parents. They need “good enough” ones. In this chapter, we unpack why “good enough” is not only okay, it’s ideal - and how letting go of perfection frees you to show up with more confidence and compassion.

By the end, you’ll start seeing Circle moments everywhere — in the tiniest interactions with your kids. And when they show up, you’ll feel more sure of yourself, more grounded, and more connected in how you respond.

Hi, I'm Bec.

I'm a wife, a mum to a beautiful little girl and I live in a small country town in rural Victoria, Australia.

I've supported hundreds of women through early motherhood and I would be deeply honoured to support you too.

I also have my own story of becoming a mum and navigating recovery from a traumatic birth. So I really do get just how hard it can be.

"It has without a doubt improved our parenting. It has enabled us to be parents by deepening our understanding of what he needs and how his experiences impact him. It has encouraged us to be more gentle and caring with him while also allowing him to explore his world safely. Because we completed it as a couple it has improved our relationship in regards to parenting and increased our ability to understand one another."

Parents of an 18 month old

"We are so grateful, the COS program has helped us understand our daughters needs more, currently, but we also have more confidence going into her toddler-hood and beyond. This is the kind of parents we want to be"

Parents of a 12 month old

INVESTMENT

Our next group will run for 6 weeks from Thursday 30th of April, at 8pm.
Places limited to 6 people/couples.

ALL SESSIONS VIA ZOOM

$350

Expression of Interest

Fill out your details and I will pop you on the waitlist for Term 2, 2026.

This does not secure your place, it just means I will email you with updates and you will be the first to know when enrollments open (before everyone else).

All places may fill from the waitlist, so if you are even a little interested it's worth putting your name down so you don't miss out.